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Date: Wednesday 28th of May 2014
Time: 7:30 pm–9:30 pm (Pacific Time)

Middling: Three-Way Play & Proxy Topping by Danarama!

Learn how to delegate a Middle to execute your commands, techniques, and punishments.

Middling: Three-Way Play & Proxy Topping

Incorporating a third into your BDSM can add an exciting element of novelty to a scene, especially by delegating a Middle to execute your commands, techniques, and punishments. Demanding the best skills of trust, management, and communication, working with (or as) a Middle is great for training, pushing your limits and those of your submissive, ready-made role play scenarios, a natural transition for switches, and an awesome mindfuck. It's also a great way for Doms to bring a new Top into a BDSM relationship while maintaining supervision and without sacrificing the Dominant role. It's also an awesome prelude or addition to threesome sex.

  1. The element of "remote control"
  2. Delegating tips for Doms
  3. How to find and negotiate a Middle act
  4. Middling for training
  5. Middling for role play
  6. What you can learn from your Middle
  7. Scenario ideas for using a Middle

Dan's two decades as a private and performing Dom includes 13 years as one of the world renowned Two Knotty Boys rope bondage instruction duo (now retired), a co-author of two best-selling rope bondage books (Two Knotty Boys' "Showing You the Ropes" and "Back on the Ropes") and creator/co-creator of numerous free bondage tutorials on video. In his light-hearted yet engaging workshops, taught in California and at US and international conferences, Dan brings his intensely creative BDSM style to bear, backed by his degree in Communication and years performing on stage. In addition to his bondage workshops, Dan is the Director of's new educational website, Kink University ( He is also a frequent instructor for and He continues to create many free instructional videos on his own. He has rigged more than 130 models in shoots by fetish photographers such as Ken Marcus, Eric Kroll, Z. Maitri, and he can be seen on numerous bondage websites including,,, and

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