Middling: Three-Way Play & Proxy Topping
Incorporating a third into your BDSM can add an exciting element of novelty to a scene, especially by delegating a Middle to execute your commands, techniques, and punishments. Demanding the best skills of trust, management, and communication, working with (or as) a Middle is great for training, pushing your limits and those of your submissive, ready-made role play scenarios, a natural transition for switches, and an awesome mindfuck. It's also a great way for Doms to bring a new Top into a BDSM relationship while maintaining supervision and without sacrificing the Dominant role. It's also an awesome prelude or addition to threesome sex.
Dan's two decades as a private and performing Dom includes 13 years as one of the world renowned Two Knotty Boys rope bondage instruction duo (now retired), a co-author of two best-selling rope bondage books (Two Knotty Boys' "Showing You the Ropes" and "Back on the Ropes") and creator/co-creator of numerous free bondage tutorials on video. In his light-hearted yet engaging workshops, taught in California and at US and international conferences, Dan brings his intensely creative BDSM style to bear, backed by his degree in Communication and years performing on stage. In addition to his bondage workshops, Dan is the Director of Kink.com's new educational website, Kink University (http://kinku.com). He is also a frequent instructor for KinkAcademy.com and PassionateU.com. He continues to create many free instructional videos on his own. He has rigged more than 130 models in shoots by fetish photographers such as Ken Marcus, Eric Kroll, Z. Maitri, and he can be seen on numerous bondage websites including TheUpperFloor.com, SocietySM.com, TheTrainingofO.com, and FuckedandBound.com.