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Welcome to Black Thorn

Black Thorn is a beautiful, welcoming, well equipped dungeon located in the lovely Lake Merritt area of Oakland in the SF Bay Area. Featuring five play rooms and over twelve pieces of quality equipment, Black Thorn is able to accommodate a diverse array of fetish interests and lends a luxurious atmosphere to any photo shoot, private party or play date.

Other offerings include free street parking, two bathrooms, a fully equipped kitchen, hardwood floors, well appointed furnishings, mirrors, elegant lighting, and air play speakers for music in every room. Please note that no illegal activities are allowed on premises and all play is safe, sane and consensual between adults of legal age.

Black Thorn is available for private rental to artists, couples or groups seeking to refine their skills and explore unconventional relationships in a clean and safe environment.

Monthly gatherings are hosted at Black Thorn. If you’d like to be kept informed of these exciting happenings, please join the mailing list.

If you have an inquiry or comment, please send an e-mail to Jezebel (Me!) at kinkaware@gmail.com. To join the Black Thorn Fetlife group, click here.

Read more about our new play space, The Attic!

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Booking

Private Rental FAQ

  • How much does a Black Thorn rental cost?
  • $60 an hour for 4 people or less (an additional $10 tip will be added to your invoice for our dear house maid for regular deep cleanings).
  • $75 an hour for groups of 5 and over.
  • Do I get to use the entire dungeon with my rental?
  • Yes, all rentals are for private, exclusive use of the entire play house.
  • Can I pay you to clean?
  • Yes, a $60 cleaning fee will be applied to your total (advance notice required).
  • Respectful treatment of the space is expected at all times.
  • What is the capacity of Black Thorn?
  • Capacity is set at 30 people.
  • How do I get started with my rental request?
  • Fill out the rental form and wait for approval.
  • Once approved, instructions will be given on how to confirm the reservation.
  • How do I confirm my reservation?
  • Confirmation requirements include signing an online waiver and making a payment within a given time frame.
  • How do I pay you?
  • A list of payment options will be included in your invoice.
  • What is your cancellation policy?
  • A 24 hour cancellation notice is required in order to receive a refund.

Offerings

Overnight Rental

9pm to 9am (flexible)
  • 12 hours of private, exclusive rental time for groups of four and under.
  • A QUIET rule is in place between midnight and 8:00am.
  • $400

Gift Card

Pre-paid
  • Purchase here
  • Pretty Printable card.
  • Good for private rentals up to one year.

Events at Black Thorn

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Rules

Street Rules

  • Do not block anyone’s driveway, even temporarily.
  • Do not loiter outside.
  • Do not wear inappropriate street clothing.
  • Do not discuss Black Thorn or BDSM activities outside of the premises.
  • Do not have BDSM gear sticking out of your bag outside of the premises.

House Rules

  • No illegal drugs.
  • No illegal activities.
  • No non-consensual activities.
  • No one under 21 years old during Black Thorn play parties.
  • No play allowed with anyone under the influence of mind-altering drugs.
  • No screaming or loud yelling.
  • No unsupervised use of bondage, blindfolds, or gags.
  • No electricity play (violet wand okay) without permission.
  • No blood play without permission.
  • No fire play.
  • No gun play.
  • No choking.
  • No wax play around rugs or without a disposable surface barrier.
  • No smoking inside. (If smoking outside, dispose of cigarette butts responsibly)
  • No personal locks on the equipment.

Play Party Etiquette

  • Thoroughly negotiate safe words or gestures before entering into a scene.
  • Do not violate expressed boundaries.
  • Do not disrespect the space or anyone in it.
  • Do not interrupt or invade the personal space of ongoing scenes.
  • Do not touch other people or their property without consent.
  • Do not take photos without consent.
  • Do not go into closed off areas.
  • Do not leave the front door open.
  • Do not go outside without appropriate clothing
  • When outside keep voices down.
  • Approach a Host or DM for any questions or concerns.

Cleaning Etiquette

  • Use the cavicide spay or wipes provided to clean all used and exposed surfaces, including but not limited to; implements, mirrors, floors, walls, furniture, and lube bottles.
  • Use the condoms provided as a barrier for any non-personal insertables or vibrators.
  • Use the gloves provided when handling lube or any biohazardous material.
  • Throw away used disposables in the garbages provide.
  • Thoroughly wipe up any floor messes or spills to avoid tracking and falls.